Almost there ...

5.18.09. Permanency Staffing Meeting (at this meeting, we formally declared our intent to adopt ... in addition, the SW and meeting Facilitator reviewed our case and determined that the State was supportive of our intent)






















So what's next??

1. SW meets w/ Atty (SW has 25 days post staffing meeting to meet w/ Atty)
2. Atty reviews file/petition and sets pre-trial date (this could take +/- 3o days)
3. Pre-trial held and Trial date set (trial date could be +/- 45 days from pre-trial)
4. Trial (could take +/- 45 days for Judge to make a final decision)
5. After decision, if favorable, our case is transferred to an adoption worker
6. Adoption finalized (usually within +/- 3o days of case transfer)

Steps 1 - 6 could take up to another 6 months, but on a positive note, all are familiar with Camden's BM's situation, which works in our favor.

Please pray for an expedited process and that Camden will legally be ours before Christmas.

Blessings & Peace.

Mother's Day 2009

Motherhood, the toughest job I'll ever love ... now x2!

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Before I was a Mom

Before I was a Mom -I slept as late as I wanted and never worried about how late I got into bed. I brushed my hair and my teeth everyday.

Before I was a Mom -I cleaned my house each day. I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby. I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous. I never thought about immunizations.

Before I was a Mom -I had never been puked on - Pooped on - Spit on - Chewed on, or Peed on. I had complete control of my mind and My thoughts. I slept all night.

Before I was a Mom -I never held down a screaming child so that doctors could do tests...or give shots. I never looked into teary eyes and cried. I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin. I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.

Before I was a Mom -I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put it down. I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt. I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much. I never knew that I could love someone so much. I never knew I would love being a Mom.

Before I was a Mom -I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body. I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby. I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child. I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so important.

Before I was a Mom -I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay. I had never known The warmth, The joy, The love, The heartache, The wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom. I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much before I was a Mom.